Tag Archives: perception

Don’t Critique Yourself Out of Creativity

It’s so much easier to critique what you can see than it is to conceptualize something that doesn’t exist yet. Our ideas of the future are often vague, as if we’re trying to throw together a complex clay sculpture without an armature. Michelangelo said, “Every block of stone has a statue inside it, and it [...]

Going to the Dogs: Not Everyone Feels the Way You Do

There’s always another point of view. In old fables about whether any specific event or circumstance signifies good luck or bad, the moral always depends on your individual context and outlook. I’m interested in hearing your point of view on the following story. Do you see a definitive right and wrong? Or a “righter” and [...]

Hear the Meaning, Not Just the Sound

When people talk to you, do you hear everything they’re communicating? Do you recognize the meaning in people’s voices as well as their words to understand what they’re really telling you? Once you’ve known someone for a while you can often “hear” their voice as you read their emails or their Facebook posts. But to [...]

Expectations Can Be Blinding

Here’s a small example of how we can prevent ourselves from perceiving reality when our expectations get in the way: Last week I was scheduled to fly to Las Vegas for the Direct Marketing Educational Foundation board meeting and annual awards dinner followed by the Direct Marketing Association’s annual conference. I’ve been going to these [...]

Reapplying the Platinum Rule: How to Coach Your Boss

“How about if Part III gives advice for those with managers who fit these descriptions?” A discerning reader posed that question after reading my last two blogs, A New Element of Management, Part I: Three Scenarios of Employee Disengagement, and Part II: The Platinum Rule. Both blogs focused on executives Silvia, Ophelia, and Felix, each [...]