Tag Archives: goals

How to Keep a New Year’s Resolution Any Time of Year

Numerous studies — and most people’s personal experiences — show that New Year’s resolutions generally don’t pan out, that they’re usually broken within a few weeks and forgotten by March. But that doesn’t mean that you can’t change, or that you shouldn’t attempt real, heartfelt self-improvement now — or anytime at all. Each day you [...]

Partnering for Problem-Solving

When you need someone to take action on a problem, isn’t your instinct to tell them exactly what to do so you have the best chance of getting the outcome you want? Three recent scenarios got me thinking about effective ways to resolve problems and insure a good outcome: Friends who were angry at how [...]

The Second Best Chicken Soup Ever

Last week, I made chicken soup again. If you read my earlier post about Fighting Fear with Chicken Soup, then you know what a big deal it was for me to make it the first time around. I couldn’t find my carefully written notes from the last time, but even so, it was easier this [...]

A Question of How to Say “No”

When I did a webinar, “Self Management in Frantic Times”, the most popular question that attendees sent in advance had to do with how to say “No.” No, because the request was illogical or unworkable. No, if I just can’t get to it right now on top of everything else. No, until the conditions are [...]

When the Going Gets Tough…

There is no “business  as usual” any more. Do you know anyone who isn’t a little more urgent and intense than they were three years ago? Senior people who relied on secretaries and minions now get their hands dirty in aspects of administration and infrastructure that they never had to think about before; technical specialists [...]